Rochester Kink Society

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Event list

Upcoming Workshops

• A fire-play introduction— "Come on Baby Light my Fire"

  December 13, 4:30 PM.
  Cost $15, $25 for both workshops. Discounted play-party of $15 for non-members attending a workshop.
  Presented by guest speaker Ed Ninja.

  Does the look of the flickering flame mesmerize you? Is the flash and pop a turn-on? Is the smell of alcohol a rush? Fire play may be for you. Learn how to play safe, negotiate a scene, find the proper materials, fire cupping and prevent turning your submissive into bad beer butt chicken. Come to the bar-b-que and walk away with a greater knowledge of fun and safe fire play practices. You can even have a chance to feel the heat of the flame.

• The world of Violet Wands— "It's Electrifying Man"

  December 13, 6:30 PM.
  Cost $15, $25 for both workshops. Discounted play-party of $15 for non-members attending a workshop.
  Presented by guest speaker Ed Ninja

  The glow of light purple, the smell of ozone the crackle of static electricity, the shimmer of Mylar bouncing over bare skin soft vibrating fingers or the sting of a charged knife, what attracts you to Violet Wand play? "It's Electrifying Man" lures you into the history and myths of this once used medical tool. Learn not only about the safety and care of this machine but also all the wonderful things that Tesla never thought of and what "Wand Sluts" love. Come feel the energy of this powerful device, see sparks hot enough to start a fire and strong enough to brand plus find out how to add wand play into your existing play.

• Forced Feminization Workshop

  February 14, 6 PM
  Presented by RKS' Mistress Medusa, owner of the beautiful and sexy Jade

  Following up on October's crossdressing work, this workshop will explore the power-play of "forced" feminization. Why does it feel so good to be forced to dress up like a woman? What buttons can be pressed to make it even more enjoyable?

Other Special Events

• Holiday Social

  December 7, Noon

  To celebrate the Holiday season, RKS will host a holiday dinner at our dungeon. RKS will provide a main dish, with attendees asked to bring sides. Cost will be $5 to cover expenses.

• New Year's Eve party

  December 31, 8 PM

  Ring in the new year with RKS! Come and celebrate by dressing up in your formal fetish best.

Regular/Ongoing Events

• Munch and Social

  Opportunities over a meal for the Rochester BDSM community to get together, socialize, and meet new people. You needn't be an RKS member to visit; please drop in anytime. They're free - just cover your own food and drink. The social is usually the 7 PM on the first Wednesday of the month at Barnard Crossing, whereas the munch is usually the third Sunday at 2 PM at Jay's Diner.

• Play party

  Twice-monthly parties held at the RKS dungeon. Parties involve socializing, playing, watching. They are generally scheduled on the second Saturday and the last Saturday of the month at 8 PM.

• Dungeon Days

  Parties run by our lovable Baron Devon. Dungeon Days occurs any Friday when there is nothing else scheduled that weekend. Be sure to RSVP to rks@RochesterKinkSociety.com, because if no one RSVPs or shows up, there is no guarantee how late Devon will stay. Doors normally open at 7 PM, but may open earlier (or different nights entirely) by special request. Mention this in your RSVP and Devon will see if he can accommodate.

  The first Dungeon Day of the month is quiet play and massage night, offering more relaxing music for more intimate play.

• Massage Group

  The massage group meets to exchange massages on the first Dungeon Day of each month. Various massage oils and holsters are provided, but please bring your own sheets and towels.

• Movie & a Beating

  Monthly BDSM-related movies at the RKS dungeon on the third Friday each month, at 7 PM. There is no guest fee for the movie! (Only if your guests stay for the beating.) A play party follows if people are interested.

• Cleaning & Work parties

  Monthly space cleaning, maintenance, and improvement. Show up an hour before the movie and help us keep the dungeon in good order. It is usually scheduled at 6 PM on the third Friday, prior to Movie & a Beating.

• Board meetings

  Organizational meetings for RKS, which occur at 6:30 PM on the second Tuesday each month. Members are welcome to attend and provide their input at these meetings.

Independent Groups

• Rochester Cross Dressers Network

  The Rochester CD Network meets at RKS once each month, usually on the first Saturday. Visit their web site for more information. As an independent group, RKS members should go through their interview process if planning to attend, rather than showing up unannounced. Alternately, contact Mistress Medusa, the RKS liaison with the CD Network.

Event dates

Please note that event times and dates are subject to change as we schedule around holidays and special events. Verify dates, times, and locations on the monthly calendars below, and check back regularly to make sure you've got an up-to-date calendar!

• December 1 Polls openElections begin for the 2009 board of directors.
• December 3 7:00 PM: SocialBarnard's Crossing, 2435 Dewey Avenue. The social is on again, so please join us!
• December 5 7:00 PM: Massage and Quiet Play NightTrade massage or do a tranquil scene.
• December 6 6:30 PM: Rochester CD Network
• December 7 Noon: Holiday SocialEnjoy a dinner with friends and meet candidates for the 2009 RKS board, at the dungeon
• December 9 6:30 PM: Board meeting
• December 13 4:00 PM: Workshop: Come on Baby Light my FireFireplay introduction presented by Edninja 5:30 PM: Pizza break 6:30 PM: Workshop: It's Electrifying ManThe world of violet wands, Presented by Edninja 8:00 PM: Play Party
• December 15 Polls closeElections close for the 2009 board of directors.
• December 19 7:00 PM: CANCELLED Movie and a BeatingMovie night will restart after our move
• December 21 2:00 PM: Munch at Jay's Diner, 2612 West Henrietta Road
• December 31 8:00 PM: Play PartyNew Years Eve party
• January 3 6:30 PM: Rochester CD Network
• January 7 7:00 PM: Social at Barnard's Crossing, 2435 Dewey Avenue
• January 10 6:00 PM: BDSM 101 Workshoptopic to be determined. 8:00 PM: Play Party
• January 13 6:30 PM: Board meeting
• January 16 7:00 PM: Movie and a Beatingmovie portion 9:00 PM: Movie and a Beatingbeating portion
• January 18 2:00 PM: Munch at Jay's Diner, 2612 West Henrietta Road
• January 23 7:00 PM: Dungeon Days

Subscribing to the Calendar

Want to make sure you've always got the latest dates & times for our events? With appropriate software, you can subscribe to the calendar. Once subscribed, all events we publish are integrated with your personal calendar. And, as we update our calendar, changes are automatically reflected in your calendar too.

We offer both iCalendar and vCalendar, the predecessor.

Please refer to your software's help for information on how to subscribe. Generally, it involves pasting one of the links below into the calendar program (not just clicking on the link - which will perform a one-time load of events into your calendar, but not receive updates).

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