Rochester Kink Society

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Attending a Munch & Social

The munch (luncheon) and social are a way our members stay in touch with each other. They're also a way for those interested in joining to learn more about the group, and to introduce themselves before coming to a party. This allows you to make sure we're what you're looking for, and allows us to protect our members' confidentiality and our society's integrity. Attend as frequently as you like; these are our "public" events and we're happy to have others interested in the scene to talk to.

Both the munch and social are free to attend, other than paying for your own food and service. The munch is at a restaurant, whereas the social is held at a bar. Although RKS has a no-alcohol policy at parties, there is no such restriction for the munch or social. At our present social location, Barnard Crossings, ages 18 - 20 are welcome to attend although they are obviously unable to purchase alcohol.

Once you arrive, we can often be identified by black hats with the BDSM logo, shown to the right, and "RKS". If you don't see the hats, and are nervous about asking for us directly, you can ask for the computer group.

The two events are essentially the same: a luncheon where we share conversation over food. Discussion typically centers on topics relating to the lifestyle, but also flows through current events, technology discussions, and a variety of other topics. If it's a large group, there may even be a couple of conversations depending on where you are around the table.

As a new person interested in our group, we'll be interested in you. You'll be given a folder with more information about RKS, and the next steps in joining us. You will, at some point, be asked how you found us and what is your interest in our group and the lifestyle. There are no right or wrong answers; we just want to know more about you. When you're ready to take your involvement in RKS to the next level, be sure to talk to a board member about coming to a party.

Despite similarity of the two events, within RKS munch refers to the event on the afternoon of the third Sunday of each month; whereas social refers to the event on the first Wednesday evening. Note that dates, times, and location may vary due to holidays or conflicts, so be sure to check the calendar for exact time and location.

Social: Barnard Crossings Bar & Grill

Eighteen and up are welcome, but you must be 21 or older to order alcohol. In addition to a range of alcohol, they serve "typical" bar food: burgers, wings, fries and onion rings. You can get a meal for about $4 plus drink.

Location: 2435 Dewey Avenue, Rochester NY 14615

Driving directions: Take NY Rt. 104 (Ridge Road) to Dewey Avenue/NY Rt. 18. Go north on Dewey 0.9 miles. Barnard Crossings will be on the left, set back from the road, just before you cross the railroad tracks. (It's the old rail depot.)

Munch: Jay's Diner

Jay's Diner serves the typical range of 50's-style diner food, including breakfast all day, sandwiches, burgers, wraps, and some more substantial dinners. They do not serve alcohol. Most meals will run $10 - 15, except for dinners which are $15 - 20. There is a 10% student discount.

Location: 2612 West Henrietta Road, Rochester NY 14623. RKS meets in the separate glassed-in section to the left as you enter the restaurant.

Driving directions: Take I-390 to exit 16 (Mt. Hope/West Henrietta/East River Road). Go south on West Henrietta for 0.9 miles. Jay's Diner will be on the left, across from Movies 10.